Tag Archives: Rihanna

A Damn SHAME! Survey Says: “Rihanna Asked for It”

Rihanna's Face After Abuse - TMZ

(reading Sandra Rose about the picture and she says)

(because of how the picture was taken it looked worst than it was)

(not sure it takes away from the seriousness of what happened)

I was afriad of this being the case. But in this media guy driven world (especially Hip Hop) I am not surprised. She is suppossed to be the bad girl and Chris Brown is suppossed to be the good boy so why would he get so angry?

In relationships there are all kinds of things that can happen to make someone enraged, but you still don’t beat down your segnificant other. Reading about this survey on Gossip On This makes me just wonder what we are teaching our kids about.


Adding Videos To BG and S – First Up Rihanna – Hate that I Love You

Rihanna: Hate That I Love You Featuring Ne-Yo

(Rihanna – Hate That I Love You Featuring Ne-Yo)

Believe it or not I got some real good stuff coming for the grown and sexy of us. I am adding as many videos as I can to my BG and S (Being Grown and Sexy… in case you haven’t guessed it) archive of songs from today and the 80’s and 90’s (and maybe a few from the 70’s).

Ok, this is the thing. I want my personal archive to be about what I grew up listening to as well as be about what us, the forgotten (apparently) first generation Hip Hop peep used to listen to. But I also want what we listen to today in the mix somewhere to show those yungin’s what class is about lol

Well, anyway, as I try to work out deals with YouTube and the msic industry (good luck lol) in trying to promote artists while not costing millions of dollars to post whole catelogs of videos that fit the grown and sexy montra, the ones that are free will be psoted on my video archive. The ones that aren’t (like this one) I will just take a picture of it and link to where the video is.

Then there are those that aren’t anywhere… I will just post it and hope one day they will get the picture and give us a chance to promote what they do (then and now).

Here are some links:

Be Grown Be Sexy

Old School Videos and Songs (stuff from the 90’s, 80’s and 70’s for the grown and sexy type)

BG and S Videos and Music from Today

Coming soon… Last.fm list (just stated it so nothing is on it yet… look here for a bigger list)

beGrown_beSexy's Profile Page

Yahoo Music

Yahoo Quiet Storm

Adult R&B

New Jack Swing (lol)


Rihanna and Chris Brown… The Drama Continues

Rihanna's Face After Abuse - TMZ

(Rihanna battered and abused after fight with Chris Brown)

(as seen on TMZ)

So what you see above is suppossed to be the real deal pictures. TMZ put it down and people are wondering if this is a fake shot like the other ones or the real deal. I think this is the real deal and makes Chris Brown look like a total monster.

I personally think they can both recover (mostly because they are both young), but the most important thing is that I hope they both face the issue and become leading avocates of this type of violence. I think that would be the only grown thing to do. It is much to ask of kids (even though they both are over 18) but I think both of them have the support to be able to do it.

My message to Rihanna and Chris Brown is that once you guys pull it together for yourselves and your families, get the message out about domestic violence.


Tatoos With Style: Check Out Rihanna’s Tattoos

I love me some The.LIFE Files. I wish them well because people who are grown and sexy like the finer things, also like rap, also like to have fun, and also like a little gossip now and then too lol. Here we have Rihanna showing off the Tattoos that she can show you. I am not too much of a sexist (even though I am admitingly old school and I do open doors for the ladies), but I like women who don’t have the crazy tattoos all over their bodies. What Rihanna has is very smooth and even feminine. It also is sort of secretive too. She made some good choices when it came to the tattoos that we can see LMAO

More on The.LIFE files: Check Out Rihanna’s Tattoos (The One’s That She Can Show)